I’ve always felt apprehensive about sharing “How to gain and maintain regulars!”
Not because I’m gate keeping, but because even though most of the time you can get on really well with your regulars, sometimes they can become difficult to deal with, etc.

In my early days of stripping, I would notice dancers with regular customers and I was intrigued! “How do you get regulars?” I remember asking a dancer who seemed to have a whole roster of them.

The main response I got over the years was “Regulars? They are so draining!!”
From my viewpoint, I always thought, Who cares? They seem reliable and spend soooo much money, that looks like a pretty great deal!

And generally was good, I also learnt and understood the draining remarks over the years. Draining in the sense of subtle mind games, emotional labour and basically attempts at power exchange, boundary pushing, wanting more for less etc. It’s not all regs but it generally is always a reg.

Mixed with this, gifts! Some thoughtful, some expensive, some with an agenda!